Saturday, September 26, 2009

感动不是爱

你为何会爱上一个人?一定是他有什么你是仰慕的。

可能是他的风度,他的学识,他的修养,他的气质,他的美丽,他的生活态度,他的积极,他的上进心

如果只是因为你感动他对你好而在一起,除了对你好,你找不到其他理由让你爱下去,你们迟早会分开。

你不仰慕他,就会开始批评他,看不起他,嫌弃他,最后就离开了。这样的理由离开一个人很残忍是不是?你以为继续批评,继续嫌弃就很仁慈?

两个人可以在一起快乐地维持一段感情,除非一个愿打一个愿挨。不然,就只有两个不断地去发掘对方的好,持续地互相仰慕着,才能长久。

9 comments:

khengsiong said...

我在美国时候,认识了一对大马夫妇。男的是到美国“跳飞机”的,女的却是美国大学毕业生。女的唸书时,男的帮她很多忙。。。

我回国后,听说他们离婚了。

andersonloo said...

但爱不可没有感动!

jam said...

Love is a very complicated thing, hard to describe using only a few words. But I kind of agree what you said!

SinJi said...

Kheng Siong,
不知是不是女的走得太快,男的不思进取,或是其他原因?与其每天不断埋怨对方,在压力下勉强,分开也好。

Anderson,
当然要感动;)只是不能“只有”感动而没有其他嘛。不进则退啊~

Jam,
对咯,人的感情很复杂嘛,几个字说不完,所以关于两性关系我们还有很多可以写:)

小蚊子 said...

有感而发?

jam said...

Hi, Sinji,
I am going to Cambodia next year. I read your posts on Cambodia. You mentioned about getting a driver in Siam Riep. How much you paid for the service and what are included in his service? Thanks.

SinJi said...

Jam,

I should put in the price in my cambodia story...
He is just driver take us everywhere we want to go + airport-town.

Angkor Wat + Angkor Thom + Ta phrom etc (the small round i mentioned) USD25/day.

Banteay srey + kbal spean + Roulus gruop (big round, out skirt area) USD70/day.

ofcoz u can make your own plan destination and ask him quote.
email him la. he is a good young guy.

yankunfriend@yahoo.com

happy planning: )

i think 3 days there, u can cover 80% heritage area.

SinJi said...

小蚊子,
是啊,周围都是这样的例子。

jam said...

Thanks, Sinji!